- “I just need someone to hold me accountable.”
- “If only there was a community where I could get advice…”
- “Let me tell you my plan…”
Have these phrases ever passed your lips? And then you failed to
- execute your plan
- take action on the advice you received, or
- be accountable?
I’m going to assume the answer is “Yes,” because it’s a mistake we’ve all made before. Although some of us longer than others.
I was always looking around for something that would make me do it.
And I learned: There’s no such thing.
There is no force on earth that can make you do something.
Really — nothing.
Even if a moustachio’d highwayman held you at gunpoint and demanded “YOUR LAUNCH DATE OR YOUR LIFE,” you would still be choosing between consequences: Do I ship? Or do I take the bullet? You get to choose. You cannot be truly forced.
And why would you want to be, anyway? Why would you want to put yourself in that position?
Nobody does, not for long.
So you say you want “an accountability partner,” and that lets the pressure off, and then…nothing gets done. No surprise there: you relied on the pressure, and then you let it escape. Accidentally on purpose.
This is a pattern I’ve seen over & over in myself, before I decided to get over it. And in the last 5 years I’ve seen it in so many of our students.
It’s one of the core causes of failure and if you want to succeed, you need to address it.
To help you, I recorded a little Amy Productivity Psychology Story Time for you. I explain the why, the wherefores… and what to do about it:
If you wanna listen to this on your phone, you can add our Stacking Bricks podcast from iTunes and tune in to Episode #11.
We’ve tuned 30×500 to help you avoid this very trap
First off, we don’t pump you up with unrealistic expectations: 30×500 isn’t about some dramatic story arc with a Hollywood ending. 30×500 helps you build a bunch of tiny wins over a longish period of time until success emerges. Less sexy, but far more likely to actually… you know… succeed.
Cuz 30×500 is about realism. Realism is what gets results.
You won’t have to watch 50 hours of video before you see any results, either — no, you’ll get started on tiny steps with tiny wins from the very first hour.
That’s going to help you get past the pressure/guilt cycle, and replace it with a positive feedback loop instead.
This new course – our best 30×500 ever – is the first version specifically designed to help you work at your own pace and on your own schedule.
30×500 is relaunching soon. Want first dibs? Drop your name in the box below. And while you wait, I’ll send you the 7 counter-intuitive startup rules that makes this process work: