Thinking like a Slayer


12
Mar 13

Curing the Lie of the Big Win (and the Big Fail)

We’re surrounded by the stories — the mytharc, if you will — of The Big Win. (Also the Big Fail.) “Twitter succeeded because…” “I failed because…”

I’m here to tell you: That’s largely a load of crap.

If you want to know why — and if you want to know how I succeed at so many things people said would never work — you want to watch this video. It’s short (12 minutes) and it’s awesome.

It’s nominally about habits, but it’s really about the stories we tell ourselves, and why they make us fail.

(PS — this is a lesson straight outta the new 30×500. Why am I giving it away for free? Because everybody needs it.)


Did you recognize yourself in this video? Did you spot stories that you hear every day?

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11
Mar 12

Scary Things I’ve Done That Could Have Killed My Business (& Some I’m Gonna Do)

Today’s a Sunday. That means I spent >90 minutes on Campfire with my 30×500 students, answering questions, talking about biz and shootin’ the shit.

Today, I wanted to get my students’ opinions on some changes I’m making for the next 30×500. I’m always trying to increase the number of students who stick with it all the way through to shipping.

Here are some of the ideas I presented:

  • an application process
  • distributing 100% of the materials a month early to people who attend
  • major changes in the software I use to run the class (tossing out a lot of the functionality, turning the rest on its head)
  • a significantly higher price, which may require a payment plan

David Richards, a member of the current 30×500, weighed in on that last one:

Something in my gut says a payment plan might be a headache while dealing with student retention. First payment of $xxxx, sucking air after some Safari work, next payment’s due… naw, I’ll just bail.

I agreed with him. It’s certainly a possibility. There are parts of the class which require a lot of personal investment in time & energy to complete, and who knows?

But, I said,

…one thing I really worry about is NOT doing things I should do, out of fear.

The fact is, each one of these steps is scary to me.

I worry people might just “stop paying” on the payment plan

Even though the first Year of Hustle class had a payment plan, and nobody “just stopped paying,” I worry someone might.

I worry about raising the price

Even though I’ve successfully raised the price by over 300% since the first class (and worried about it every time).

I worry about sending students the 100% of the materials in advance

Even though last time, I gave away the “secret revelation” behind 30×500 (1, 2, 3), and three of the meatiest lessons (from deep inside the class 3 & 4, 5) — and it resulted in an even more productive, profitable class.

I know this one, particularly, sounds ridiculous. Why would I worry that more people will drop out or ask for refunds if I give them the material all at once, when my refund rate during class is already so low? People who have already passed the application process and already paid?

Well. Ever downloaded a bunch of ebooks or PDFs or slide decks, and because you had so many, you never dove into any of them? Yeah. I worry about that. And that a new student might read it all — and say “So, what?” Despite the fact that only one person out of nearly 300 students ever said anything like that. Yes, less than 0.4%. It’s still on my mind.

I really worried when I first offered the 100% money-back guarantee

It was a >$1,000 class. What if people take advantage of me? What if they took it to the end, took all the materials, got a lot out of it, and then dicked me over?

Every time I revise the sales page, and I leave that guarantee in there, I worry anew. Even though I’ve only ever given a handful of refunds per class.

It doesn’t matter.

What Does Worry Mean??

Worry isn’t always rational. Hell, most of the time it’s not. Worry is a sign you’re doing something you haven’t done before. Or it’s a sign you’re doing something you have done before, which worked just fine, and your subconscious is refusing to learn the lesson.

Or it’s a sign of absolutely nothing.

So yeah, I’m worried. About allllll kinds of things.

But whenever I feel worry, I’ve made it a habit to remind myself:

I should be much more worried that I’ll straightjacket myself with fear. That the real thing to fear is doing the same thing, forever.



NB: This blog post was inspired by Brooke Riggio, a 30×500 alum, who’s worried about his money-back guarantee:

I gave him that advice because when I was worried, other people gave it to me. And they were right. And I am right. But it is still scary and we still worry.


10
Nov 11

You Are So Damn Lucky – Stop Blaming Your Family, Your Friends, & Your Society & Get Off Your Ass

I’ve traveled the world. Well, quite a few parts of it, anyway. Enough to see a pattern, certainly. First of all, everybody, everywhere, is convinced that their countrymen are the worst drivers in the world. And…

Everybody, everywhere, is convinced that their country/city/family is the worst environment for creating a great business.

In Austria, people tell me how hard it is to create a business, and how terrible the taxes are. (Two things that I can tell you from first hand experience are, in fact, not so bad at all.)

In London, I’ve heard about how nobody will believe in you — and even investors will refuse to acknowledge your brilliance by giving you their money. I once read an essay that claimed that “only 1 in 10 business people ‘get it’” in London. Only.

In New Zealand, I’ve been told that folks daren’t do great things because of “Tall Poppy Syndrome” — that is to say, the tall poppy gets mowed. They say people in NZ resent and cut down anyone who strives to go above & beyond. You know, “Who do they think they are?”

And Tall Poppy Syndrome, of course, sounds remarkably like the “the nail that sticks up gets hammered down” — a Japanese proverb.

The Austrians believed that London and the US was better; the Londoners, New Zealanders thought the US was better.

Of course, the US is my home turf. I’ve lived most of my life in the US, and have more connections there than anywhere else. I’ve got enough material about the US for hundreds of essays:

People complaining about the system. About their jobs. About their families’ lack of support.

And, perhaps most brutally of all, complaining about the absolute hubris and gall of their compatriots.

How dare they.

Mike Lee & The Clattering Claws

You know that famous, experienced iApp developer guy who announced he would start charging $1,000 an hour?

Well the “community” full of alleged “entrepreneurs” — mostly American, it seems — couldn’t have piled on faster with:

  • Who does he think he is?
  • Ha! That’ll never happen in a month of Sundays!
  • HA HA

Yadda yadda yadda. Honkhonksnore.

Gee, This Sounds Familiar…

Could it be Tall Poppy at work? Or perhaps Stick-uppy Nail?

Call it what you like. I call it the Crab Bucket (after Terry Pratchett).

But… It’s Americans! The Land of Milk and Honey and Outsized Optimism and Supportive Parents and Embracing Failure and Money Money MONEY!

And yet…

An Intimate, Open Source Example

You probably know about OSCON, the mega-conf that O’Reilly Media puts on every year, all about Open Source. What you probably don’t know is that I was on the committee for several years running.

One year, I argued strongly against a certain talk proposal because it was badly written, without value for the audience… and I had bought the speaker’s book and found it to be positively dreadful.

My overall feeling was: Not On My Watch.

Later, when I was walking the halls during the conference, I happened upon a conversation. I happened to overhear that would-be speaker talking to a friend…

Railing about how her talk was “barred” because she was a woman.

It took all the self-control I had to keep my mouth shut.

Stop Lying To Yourself… And Everyone Else

That right there is the same principle at work, dear reader. The principle of the Big, Sexy Excuse.

It’s not my fault, it’s Society.

It’s not my fault, it’s my family.

It’s not my fault, it’s my vagina — and what other people think about it.

All lies.

All Big, Sexy Excuses that’ll get you a little righteous anger, a little clucking sympathy, and a fat lotta nothing done.

Successful People Struggle. End of Story.

Everywhere you find folks who buck the status quo, you find them drinking and moaning and blogging about why their family, their friends, and their society fails to support them. Why there aren’t more people like them. Why people don’t understand them.

Why they feel so damn alone.

This is a universal experience. It can’t be escaped.

And yet, there are those who kick ass anyway.

Those who don’t cuddle their excuses close like their favorite blankie. Who don’t hang their whining out in public like a white flag. Who don’t wait for some magical time when the stars align, for everything to be easy before they get to work.

Who show up, who do awesome shit, and who do it all bravely against the grain — because true success is always against the grain.

Because they know that their excuses don’t matter, only their efforts do. And they know that nobody will ever invite them to do great work. They have to invite themselves.

Choose to be one of them.


14
Jun 11

5 Big Nasty Fears Keeping You on the Hamster Wheel

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Hourly work. Salaried work. You know that these are not the path to financial freedom, cuz the minute you stop working, you stop earning. You’re stuck on the hamster wheel, running as fast as your little legs can take you… and getting nowhere. And it sucks.

You know that the best way to get the kind of income & freedom you want is to HAVE SOMETHING TO SELL. Not selling your time — but a thing, that you can create once and sell over & over.

You could take that creative skill and use it to cut out the middleman, right? After all, you’re a creator — people pay you to create things for them, it’s what you do. People pay you for your time, to create things that make them money.

If they can make money off your work, why can’t you?

You could create something yourself, and sell it yourself. Yep, you know it. You could.

But you’re not doing it. Something’s stopping you. There’s a big fat boulder blocking your Road to Awesome and you’re sitting there, chin in hand, staring at it.

You’re not alone. I’ve talked to hundreds of would-be entrepreneurs and heard the same concerns worries, & excuses over and over again. Heck, I’m intimately familiar with them myself.

Here are 5 of the biggest, nastiest, and most pernicious misconceptions standing between you and a product that earns you a sweet little income… and what you can do to overcome them.

It’s time to kiss your hamster wheel goodbye.

1. “I don’t have the time to make a product… or the money.”

This is the #1 fob-off I hear over and over. Let me be clear: This is an excuse.

When we don’t have any better excuses handy, time and money are the good ol’ standby we reach for. Time and money are the cozy batting we wrap around our ambitions to dull them.

You’re a creator — you don’t need money to create a product. It’s what you do all day long, for other people. You make something from nothing. All you really need is your computer, software, the interwebs, and an infinite supply of coffee. Don’t set yourself up to fail by thinking you need fancy fonts, a copyeditor, a designer or developer, a print-on-demand contract, or a fancy ecommerce platform.

As for time… you know what I’m gonna say. Make time. Toss out your TV. Put aside the cheesy vampire novel habit, for now.

Charge your existing clients a higher hourly rate, and work fewer hours. Negotiate a 4-day work week with your employer. Take some time off. Schedule regular hack days (or hack nights) as if it were something critical that you absolutely cannot miss… because they are.

You can absolutely create and launch a successful product with a part-time effort. You have to be willing to make every hour count, to make decisions that get you to your goal as fast as possible, to design a product that will work with a part-time effort, make sure you don’t waste precious time puttering around with “big ideas” that won’t help you reach your goals in the short-term… but it can absolutely be done.

We designed & developed our first subscription web app, our ebook, and our training courses while living off client work. Now we’re totally free of clients — all products, all the time! — and developing a second subscription web app “on the side” of our main business.

Repeat: it can be done.

Do everything you can to set yourself up to succeed, make decisions that reflect your real-world circumstances from the very outset, and keep on truckin’.

2. “What if I make something and it doesn’t sell?”

This is the most natural fear in the world. We all have it. I have it. Every time I launch something… and during the whole process of creating it, too. For me, it’s a pendulum, swinging back and forth between “People will LOVE this!” and a small voice that quivers, “But what if I’m wrong?”

And, if you know me, you know I’ve got several successful products under my belt, which have brought in over half a million dollars in revenue so far since 2009. I’ve only launched one flop, and it wasn’t even a big one… but I still worry every single time.

There are two important strategies to dealing with a fear like this one:

First: Do everything you can to ensure it can’t happen. How can you make sure people will buy what you make? Make something that people already want to buy. Start with a need, and then fill it. Don’t fool around with “cool” ideas, always keep your focus on what will get you what you want.

Second: Realize that that fear is totally normal & doesn’t mean anything. Most of us tend to believe that our fears tell us something valuable. Well, sometimes they don’t. There’s no sabertooth tiger lying in wait behind your “Launch” button. You are not in any danger.

Everybody has this fear before launching — whether or not they admit it. Even people who’ve launched success after success. Putting something you made — a little bit of yourself — out there is scary, and always will be, no matter how much experience you have.

Acknowledge the fear, remind yourself gently that fear usually exists to keep you safe but, in this case, it’s merely an evolutionary holdover that doesn’t help you in any way.

And move on.

3. “What could I possibly make that people will want?”

Ugh, self-doubt is the worst. Luckily, your prognosis is good!

First, let’s get clear about the facts:

If somebody out there will pay you hourly to do what you do, then you can make & sell a product.

Yep, that’s right. If you can get somebody to pay you hourly to do what you do, you absolutely can create a product that will sell.

If you get paid to design, you can create a product. If you get paid to build software, you can create a product. If you get paid to communicate, to write, plan, market, or teach, you can make a product.

When you get paid to do a thing, you’ve already got three built-in markets to tap:

  1. People who would want to hire you — including those who want to, but can’t
  2. People who are like you & do what you do
  3. People who want to be like you & do what you do

For group #1, you can create products which help the potential client get their shit done. Tools and teaching that helps them get a better deal, or better results, from people they hire. Figure out who to hire and when. Give them the advice those clients always seem to need. Help them help themselves, especially for the ones who can’t afford you.

For group #2, look at your workflow and your business. What stinks? What could be better? What tools or processes do you use — or would you love to have? How can you work more efficiently, better, and earn more money?

For group #3, it’s all about the aspiration. Create education, tools, processes, and premade bits that help newbs do better work, up their game, earn more, charge more, learn.

By the way: the “if people pay you, you can make a product” rule goes double for designers, developers, & writers. Because not only do you create things — design, code, writing — you have the expertise needed to create tools to create those things easier, faster, more efficient, better. You don’t just know how to create widgets, you can create systems for creating widgets.

You own the means of production… and carry it around with you, in your head!

And yet you’re worried that you can’t make something people will buy? Marx is rolling over in his grave right now.

4. “I’m not an expert. I don’t have the knowledge or the skills.”

This fear takes two different forms:

  1. Aw shucks, I’m just me. Nobody wants to buy from me. Heck, I wouldn’t buy from me!
  2. Gee, I need to have a fancy video logo, and a theme song, and a copy editor, and my code has to be perfect and the design must be gorgeous, and… I don’t know how to do half of this shit.

Let’s tackle ‘em both:

Heck, I wouldn’t buy from me! That’s great, nobody’s asking you to. Get over yourself! The answer to Not An Expert #1 is to recognize that you’re plagued by The Curse of Knowledge, and adjust your expectations accordingly.

You know all your fears, weaknesses, foibles, and mistakes. You know how much doubt you feel. Nobody else does. You’re feeling trapped in your own skull, but hey, selling products isn’t about you… it’s about your customers. What you think about what your customers want doesn’t matter — only what they think.

Does somebody pay you for your skills? Are you employed, or do you freelance? You’re more than capable of making and selling something people want. That is all the proof you need.

You don’t need to be a big fancypants expert… you just need to know more, or do better, than some. Not “more than most people,” or even “more than a lot of people” — just some.

You don’t have to try to revolutionize an entire market, or disrupt anything. You just have to be able to help a handful people here and there. That’s all you need to be able to do to make a pretty damn good living.

Plus there’s a lot of value in being a non-expert. You’re closer to the pain that your customers will have.

Now, if your major worry is a bunch of skills you don’t have– design, development, copywriting, or a slaveboy to peel grapes for you… stop right there! Cliché though it is, Rome wasn’t built in a day. Neither was any big company you look up to, or any product that inspires you.

The solution to Not an Expert #2 is simple: Work what you’ve got.

Craft a product around what you can do, not what you can’t do. You have skills, so use them. Don’t sit around planning to fail. And make no mistake: falling in love with a product concept that requires skills you don’t have is planning to fail.

If you’re a developer with lousy visual design skills, create a product that doesn’t have to be beautiful — and sell to people who are insensitive to design. If you’re a designer who doesn’t know a SQL statement from the sound a pig makes, stay away from trying to build the world’s shiniest new web app.

Flex your already buff skills and put them to work.

Speaking of building things by yourself… what if you suck at finishing?

5. “I’m terrible at finishing projects. I’ll start, but I won’t finish… why would this be different?”

This is a nasty, nasty fear. It whispers poison in your ear: “Who are you kidding? You’ll never do it, because you’ve never done it. The proof is in… you’re a flake and a loser. And you’ll always be one.”

This fear is the one that hit me the hardest. For years, I had grand plans and dreams, even started a few of them, but they always withered on the vine. I felt like finishing was something beyond the scope of my power, almost like I had no choice in the matter. I felt, in short, like a victim.

Until one day, I had a choir-of-angels, light-splitting-the-cloud revelation… and I got over it.

What triggered that special moment where everything changed? In 2007, I had an idea — an idea that I added to every day, that grew bigger & more ambitious in scope. I pitched to a company, hoping they’d hire me to build it — but they didn’t want it. So far, this was par for the course.

One morning a couple months after their rejection, I woke up and the first thought that popped into my head was, “I’m a hypocrite.” No joke. (Usually I wake up with a head full of terrible pop music, so this was quite a change.) I realized: I could build this thing that I wanted to see live. Why exactly was I waiting for somebody to hire me to do it?

So I took the idea, stripped it naked and hacked chunks off it, til it was a tiny little atom of what I had envisioned. I called it an atom because it was the smallest building block I could think of… indivisible.

And then I tackled it with everything I had. And shipped!.

Now, it’s still been a lot of sweat, blood, tears, wailing, and gnashing of teeth to learn to reliably ship stuff on my own — by which I mean, without a boss or a client to hold me accountable.

But it all changed the moment I decided that I wasn’t going to wait any longer to live my life. And felt how incredibly fucking awesome it was to ship something under my own steam.

These are some of the lessons I’ve learned about shipping — and as far as I can tell, they’re pretty universal:

  1. Get real about what you can really ship and when. Grind your big idea down until it’s a fine and indivisible atom of an idea. Realize that only you see the big picture when you look at your tiny atom of a product… other folks aren’t privy to your plans, and won’t feel like it’s “unfinished.”
  2. Plan effectively… always keep a vivid image of the end result in mind, and the reasons you’re doing it (freedom! money! respect!). Make it so you can reach your first success as soon as possible. Make your product “the closest thing to a paycheck.”
  3. Create a system that makes it easier to work than not to work. Most of us don’t work on our own projects because it’s easier to do other things. By “system” I mean scheduling hack days, setting up your workspace for the next time before you close down, always know exactly what you will be working on so you don’t fiddle around in indecision, and doing postmortems on your work and estimates, etc.
  4. Treat your “side project” like real work. Have you been fired lately for not shipping for your boss or client? No? Then you are perfectly capable of finishing and shipping a product.

There’s more to it, of course — cuz these days, we act as if “productivity” is the path to salvation, and so we tend to feel guilty and beat ourselves up when we fail. And guilt, of course, causes avoidance, and avoidance is another way to spell “procrastination.” (And then blame our failure on what’s-your-greatest-weakness-oh-it’s-that-I’m-too-awesome excuses like “perfectionism,” which is really a symptom and not a cause.)

But these 4 steps are the biggest part of the solution.

Trust me, if I can do it, you can do it. I’ve still got notes from 2002 and 2003 on the big web apps I was going to build, and never. even. started… but today, I’m a shipping machine.

Shipping is a skill like any other. If you aren’t practicing, no wonder you feel like you can’t do it. Start an organized workout system for your shipping muscles and you’ll be amazed at what you can achieve.

Which brings us to the final, bonus roadblock…

6. “I don’t think I can do all this stuff on my own.”

Luckily, you don’t have to. I’m here to help.

If you’re ready to make a change — if you’re ready to make a product, to forge an income stream that cannot be fired, outsourced, or downsized, to work directly for the people who use what you make, to sell, to choose what to work on and when, to make yourself free… I’m here to help.

I know exactly what you’re going through. I’ve been there.

That’s why my 30×500 Product Launch Class is designed, from the ground up, to help creators like you launch your first successful paying product.

30×500 will help you implement all of the hamster-wheel-busting solutions to fears 1 thru 5 — and then some.

When you take my 30×500 Product Launch Class, you’ll learn:

  • why your current mental system for making products is rife with deadly flaws
  • how to come up with a product concept that’s guaranteed to sell from day 1
  • how to cut it down to the tiniest Creative Atom
  • how to get from the idea to a finished product as fast & stress-free as possible
  • how to ship your product
  • how to find and talk to potential customers
  • how to price your product
  • how to market your product
  • how to sell it
  • how to launch it
  • all the things you needn’t worry about, why, and how to get over them

And, as all the best infomercial salesmen say, more. Click here to get all the details — before the class is sold out:

I’ve taken just about everything I’ve learned on my 3-year odyssey from consulting income only to a self-supporting product empire, and poured it into this class: the fears, the truths, the techniques, and the systems.

30×500 is not a collection of sappy just-so stories, it’s a set of usable systems, rules, and exercises that’ll “completely change the way you look at business opportunities forever.” (Not my words — I hear that from students on a regular basis!)

As I write this, the class is 75% sold out. That means there are about 20 seats left. Maybe one of them’s got your name on it.


19
Oct 10

Is it Hard? Or Do You Just Don’ Wanna

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Is building a product hard? Maybe. Which part of it?

Committing to a schedule, doing the research, and serving a need that actually exists? Is that hard? Is reading books and forums hard? Is tabulating common themes in a spreadsheet hard? Is revisiting it twice a week hard?

No, that’s not hard. That’s don’t wanna.

Having the tough conversations with partners you need to part ways with…

… creating and sticking to a blogging schedule…

… taking advantage of the millions of opportunities that cross your path…

… sitting down for a couple hours, offline, and brainstorming how to increase your product’s reach by 10, 50, 100 customers…

No. Those are don’t wanna. Not hard. Hard would be, oh, I don’t know. How about growing up as a transgendered teen in rural India? That’s hard.

Hard means a real problem. Hard means that you can apply your full effort to it, in every way you can think of, for an extended length of time, and still lose. Hard means the requirement of delicate skills or expensive tools that are very tricky to acquire. Hard means a complete and utter lack of resources.

Not a lack of resourcefulness — that’s don’t wanna.

The real secret that’s stopping you from being an entrepreneur is this: You don’t wanna.

You’re not “showing up.” You’re not putting in the effort. You’re not laying down tracks you can chug along, faster and faster. You’re not devouring every resource that will teach you how. You’re not even going to the public library.

You’re not applying your full effort to it, in every way you can think of, for an extended length of time.

But let me give it to you straight: Nothing will fix you, but you.

No Magical Business Prince is going to waltz into your cube farm one day and deliver upon you an entrepreneurial liplock you’ll never forget. There’s only you, and what you do with your don’t wannas.

There is no single moment where you suddenly tip from being a hard-working schmuck to a successful entrepreneur. It’s just you, moving your damn feet, one step at a time.

It may never be “easy.”

But, luckily for us, it will almost never be hard.


18
Oct 10

When Selling Turns You Evil

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Does selling make you evil?

Am I evil? Wicked? Slightly naughty?

Well, am I? Some certainly would have you think so.

There’s a lot of people out there who think commerce is evil. The exchange of money for goods and services? Yep, evil. And inherently manipulative. That’s what they believe. It doesn’t matter whether there’s “undue profit-seeking,” or the rude exploitation of information asymmetry. It doesn’t matter whether the seller has some kind of power or edge over the buyer. It doesn’t matter if the seller is the tricksiest, slickest snake in the grass, or the world’s most honest downhome folky grandpa.

Commerce = EVIL. That’s what they believe.

Yep. Lots of people are doing the believing. And an awful lot of them are “in tech.”

Then you have me. I’m not only selling things (gasp!), but I’m selling things that teach other people how to sell things (double gasp!). I’m the meat puppet of mass consumerization! Me = double plus ungood evil. Right?

Anti-Cinderella Syndrome

Now, maybe you don’t think that Commerce = EVIL. Or at least, not so strongly that you’d admit it. You probably don’t think I’m evil, since here you are, reading my blog. (Unless, of course, you’re keeping your enemies closer. In which case, let’s snuggle!)

But I do have a question for you, because there’s something I like to think of as Anti-Cinderella Syndrome, and I see it all the time in otherwise smart, clever, intelligent, thoughtful, and creative people.

If you would be so kind, finish this sentence for me:

I think I could create some awesome products, or have created awesome product-like things already, but I’m afraid of setting a price and selling because…

A. I’m scared people will laugh at me, and/or hate me

B. I’m scared I’ll do it wrong, and screw up my business

C. I’m afraid that, as soon as money enters the equation, I will become obsessed with profit, damn the consequences! I will do all sorts of immoral things. I won’t be able to stop myself. I will lose my soul, doomed to become an evil marketer. The primrose path, you know! The primrose path!

If you felt more than a passing familiarity with Option C, then fret not: you sure as hell aren’t alone. And no, you wouldn’t become evil overnight. In fact, you are very moral. That’s the source of the whole quandry, isn’t it?

Because, in reality…

You Have Anti-Cinderella Syndrome

At some level, you believe that putting on a set of shiny glass slippers would transform you into a different, slicker, eviller person.

Or rather, you believe that that evil manipulation-ness is already hidden inside you, just waiting for the right set of glitzy huaraches to set it free.

There’s something about money — or specifically, profit — that makes you worry you’d turn all green and slimy.

Luckily, that fear? Not based on reality. And there’s an easy way to ensure that particular grim fairy tale never comes true.

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Curing ACS

The cure for Anti-Cinderella Syndrome really is simple:

  1. Do good. If you have Anti-Cinderella Syndrome, you’ve got strongly held ethics. Maybe you hold your ethics strongly because you’re concerned about them. But the point is, you have them. So stick to them. Create a product that reflects those morals — create immense value. Help people. Create something that leaves the world better than it was. It’s not that hard.
  2. Make your mission bigger than selling your product. Take your good product, that leaves the world better than it was, and ask, “What’s the Bigger Thing? How does it help people?” That good result and make that your mission. If your fervent mission is to ensure that good result for everyone, including your potential customers, you will never have to worry that you’ll steer them wrong.

I Do Good, My Mission

I didn’t pull this out of my ass — it’s the philosophy I’ve developed while trying to run my own businesses in the most ethical way possible.

Here’s how I figured it out:

Do Good: My products do a lot of good — I help freelancers earn more, and make better decisions; I help people make their web apps faster, and learn new skills; and, last but not least, I help people like you create, launch and sell their own products.

The Bigger Thing: Foster (and encourage) healthier, happier, smarter indie biz.

Ergo, My Mission: Help people kick ass with their small businesses.

My mission is to help every indie biz I come in contact with. That makes it easy for me to navigate any dilemma: When a person has a problem, or wants to know if my products are really for them, I don’t have to worry about whether I want their money or not. I give them the answer that will help their small biz the most. Even if that’s a “No, this doesn’t make sense, please take your $700 elsewhere.” Or even if it’s “You know, your needs are really more suited for our competitor.”

It’s crystal fucking clear.

There, dilemma solved.

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The Bottom Cinderell-y Line

If you create a product that’s good news, people will be glad to hear about it. Your audience will love to find out about it, buy it, use it. (Except for a tiny portion of haters, who don’t buy anyway.)

And if your mission is larger than “move product,” then you’ll have a nice and easy ethical guideline to follow. You won’t have to wonder, you’ll sleep like a baby, and again, your customers will be happy.

Also, little woodland creatures will be your friend.

The end.

Want to learn how to create and sell products in a happy, woodland-creature-loving, ethical way? Dream about quitting freelancing for the green fields of product-hood? My 30×500 Launch Class is filling up, so be sure to check it out!


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Oct 10

True Wealth

Do you have True Wealth? Have you thought about what it means, and what it takes to have it?

Leave aside questions of love, friends, family, health and passion — let’s talk about the popular use of the word. Wealth as in wherewithal, money, capital, freedom.

True wealth isn’t what you have, but what you can make.

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Going broke isn’t the end of the world, if you have the capacity, the connections, the knowledge, the ideas, the gumption, the skills, and the habits to earn another fortune.

Getting laid off almost doesn’t matter, if you’re so useful and provide such great value that you can find another job any time you want and name your price.

If you’ve got that, you can do anything. You can quit your job and take a 6-month sabbatical. Or a year off. Or more.

You can negotiate a shorter work-week at your Day Job to work on a side project, or just on yourself and your family. Because they can’t afford to lose you.

I know, because I’ve been there: I’ve gone broke. I’ve been conned. I’ve had my car stolen without insurance, become too sick to work for months on end, maxed out all my credit cards, been threatened with a lawsuit, crippled with stress, and unable to make rent.

And that was all in the same 6 months.

The worst thing a moderately comfortable middle class kid feared on a daily basis — it happened to me. I didn’t have a family with money to back me up. And I didn’t have a college degree or even a real high school diploma, or even any real “connections”. I didn’t have anything particularly amazing in my portfolio, or great clients I could have pointed to. I’d never had a real job before.

All I had was a on-and-off passion for code, some skills, and the naïveté that meant I felt it was totally normal to ask everyone I knew for a job. And to take on work that was harder than I could do at the time, trusting myself to figure it out.

That time was the lowest I’d ever been, and it was crippling. But I clawed my way back. And by “clawed,” I mean, “asked around for a job, took it, and then took another job that paid more, and scraped every penny and paid off my debt.”

It wasn’t even that bad. And that was because, without me really realizing it, I’d created a kind of True Wealth for myself: a portable skill and a soupçon of streetmarts… and a total lack of pride when it came to asking for what I needed.

Nine months into being employed, at second real job ever, I negotiated a 4-day work week, way before anyone cool was talking about it. After a year there, I asked for another job — one that ended up coming with profit sharing, an all-expenses paid access pass to NYC and a gold card.

Yes, all thanks to the power of True Wealth and The Ask.

Today, I’m even better off. I’ve got nearly $50k in the bank. But that’s not why I’m better off. I’m better off because I know I could lose it all tomorrow — and then make it all again.

Because now I can make and sell products. I know how to make things that people will buy, and I know how to make them, and how to ensure they actually get out there.

I can raise money I need on short notice, not by begging or borrowing, but by selling — selling things that make the world a better place.

Maybe sometime I come across as glib, but that’s because I’m trying not to come across as religious. And I like to laugh. Laughter makes the hard shit go down easier — and being in business challenges so much about your worldview, beliefs & habits that it can be very hard shit indeed, as hard as it is rewarding.

Glib or not, let me go on record now: This is not a hobby for me. This is not me repurposing evil Internet Marketing magic for a fresh new audience. This is my life now. I’m still figuring out the details of my particular implementation, so undoubtedly terms, and designs, and approaches will change, but this fact won’t change. I’m in it.

Yes, this is the point at which I tell you, “You can have this too. Come to my Launch Class. I will teach you just about everything I’ve learned about getting through the hard shit to create and sell your first product.”

Yes, this is marketing. You got me.

But just because it’s marketing doesn’t mean it’s not the truth.

30×500 Launch Class: Relaunches Next Week

The 30×500 Launch Class is a 4-month online class with a 1-month break. It’s the sequel to the 12-week Launch Class I put on last spring, with Alex Hillman, and the 30×500 class I put on this past winter/spring. It’s Mark III, having seen a lot of revision and rethinking.

And, unlike this blog post, it’s serious–seriously funny. Students have described epiphanies, and told me that certain concepts from the materials have completely changed the way they think. Just in the past few weeks alone, two Launch Class alumni have launched an ebook on refactoring in Ruby, and the private beta for a web service that helps consultants deal with The Business Part.

It’s good shit.

Here’s a little more detail about the topic, the motivation, the size of the class (small – 75), and the hands-on help you’ll get from me.

If you’re a developer, or a designer with some dev skills, and you’re ready to change the way you look at wealth and work, ideas and value and commerce, really ready to commit to it and kick ass — even though you aren’t fully sure what that entails — then I want you in my class. I want to help you kick ass.

There’s no commitment, obviously, and this blog will always be free. But I hope I’ll see you there!